About a month ago, I had an anxiety attack in the middle of my work shift. My current occupation is working as a hospital nurse. On this particular day, I and each of my coworkers were given an extra patient. My day ended up being a 13.5 hour shift without a lunch break, ending with me catching up on the day’s charting. In the middle of my shift, I made an error. My mistake undid me. I lost it. In the end, the mistake was minor, and when I notified others of the error, everyone responded with grace. However, I did not receive the grace extended to me from others or from God. Instead, the weight of my error caused me to wallow in shame, soaking up the lie ‘I am a horrible nurse,’ for the remainder of my shift.
Interesting that in this instance, no one responded to me in shame, yet I chose punishment for myself.
Perhaps, because grace is unlike anything else in this world. God’s grace is 100% well-intended, undeserved, and unearned—laced with His goodness, advocacy, and empowerment. There are no strings attached. This can be drastically different from our interactions with people around us. Sometimes we are left wondering what a person’s true intentions are—
Perhaps grace was not modeled for us well when we were children, and was therefore never internalized. Maybe we worked for a stern boss who dealt harshly with our shortcomings. We can be left continuously seeking affirmation and trying to measure up because of the poisonous mindset of perfectionism.
It can be hard to learn and continually remind ourselves to receive God’s grace. Thankfully, God is a generous gift-giver, and He will ever be.
“Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.”
(Hebrews 4:16)
Jesus went to the cross because He knew we could never be perfect. All of humanity falls short. Jesus’ sacrificial death pays the penalty for my failures, and allows me to stand clean and justified before Him. His Holy Spirit empowers me to walk in His ways. We were never made to walk the road alone, in our own strength.
“For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.”
(Ephesians 2:8-9)
Even as I’ve been walking with Jesus for a decade, I need constant reminders to rely on Jesus and to not fall into a pattern of self-sufficiency. The gospel is not about behavior modification. It is about surrendering to Jesus, and allowing the Holy Spirit to bring about real transformation in our hearts and produce in us the fruit of self-discipline.
“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
(2 Corinthians 12:9)
So to end this, let me remind you and I that:
- You are human
- You will never be perfect.
- You have limitations.
- You will fail.
And
- You are deeply loved and delighted in.
- Your value is inherent because that’s how Jesus made you.
- God’s grace will never run dry, we must only choose to receive it.